Intersections: Book Review of "Enough As She Is"

July 13, 2018 by Bill Ivey

(with thanks to Middleweb for originally publishing this review)

I pre-ordered Rachel Simmons’s newest book,

Filed Under: Rachel Simmons, Enough As She Is, educating girls, Raising Children, girls psychology, girls' school

Intersections: “Raising Caring and Happy Children in a Challenging Time”

April 29, 2018 by Bill Ivey

Dr. Richard Weissbourd opened his talk on “Raising Caring and Happy Children in a Challenging Time” by stating his primary worry is how we’ve elevated happiness and success and de-emphasized caring and empathy. When students were asked on a survey how important achievement, caring, and happiness were to them, about 50% prioritized achievement, 30% happiness, and 20% caring. Parents say they value caring over achievement but when their children were asked to rate their priorities, the kids felt their parents had the same breakdown of priorities as they did. Furthermore, when asked to rate parents as a group, parents themselves came up yet again with a similar breakdown except with some shift from caring to happiness. This disjunction between what parents say they believe and what kids (and other parents) perceive results from what Dr. Weissbourd calls the “rhetoric reality gap.”

Filed Under: Parenting, On Parenting, Raising Children, Education, Caring